Abortion : Should I Shouldn’t I

Deciding whether or not to get an abortion can be one of the toughest choices that a pregnant woman has to go through. Several things need to be factored in during the decision making process. This period can be very stressful and emotional.
Discuss with your close friends and family. Your close friends and family will be able to provide their opinions and thoughts that may help you in determining whether or not to complete an abortion.

Consider your morals and beliefs. Your morals and beliefs may play a big part in your decision about whether or not to have an abortion. However, you may also decide that you are not in a state where you could care for your child, in or out of the womb. Think about it; and make up your own mind and once you know what you want to do, tune out everyone else. A lot of people have a lot of very strong opinions about abortion, and most of them will want to give it to you, but you have to make YOUR decision. After all, you would be the one raising the child.
Consider the costs of raising a child. “Children are priceless, but raising them is probably the most expensive thing you’ll ever do.” Money may or may not play a role in making your decision about an abortion. Some believe that if they cannot afford to raise a baby, then it would be better for them to have an abortion.
Consider putting the child up for adoption. Putting any child up for adoption is a relatively easy process. There are thousands of adults who are willing to adopt children, either because they cannot have children themselves, or they just want to help a child in need.
Consider both the medical side effects of having an abortion and the effects of going though with the pregnancy. After having an abortion, many mothers receive side effects such as sickness, varying degrees of bleeding, depression and, in some extreme cases, death. Similarly, giving birth will carry some risk of sickness or death.

Consider the costs of an abortion. Abortion costs differ from state to state, from abortion clinic to abortion clinic, and may vary depending on what stage of your pregnancy you are in.
Remember that in the end, the decision is yours to make. While it is good to listen to other people’s opinions and advice about getting an abortion or keeping the baby, make sure that you (and the baby’s father, if applicable) are the one that actually makes the choice.
Many people will try to sway you either one way or the other, however, remember that in the end you are the person that has to make the decision of whether or not to keep your child.

When discussing whether or not to get an abortion and you are asking your close friends and family members, you may want to especially ask those who have either had an abortion, or have considered getting an abortion. You can learn from what they have already been through.
After receiving an abortion you should expect to have side effects. Minor side effects include: abdominal pain and cramping, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, infection, spotting and bleeding. It is possible that you may experience these side effects for up to 2 to 4 weeks following the procedure.
After receiving an abortion you may also receive more serious complications such as: heavy or persistent bleeding, infection or sepsis, damage to the cervix, scarring of the uterine lining, perforation of the uterus, damage to other organs, and in extreme cases, death. Although serious complications only occur in less than 1 out of 100 first trimester abortions and approximately 1 out of every 50 late term abortions; it is important to know the possible risks. However, giving birth and complications with pregnancy also hold several of these risks.

Some women who receive abortions have feelings of guilt afterwards. In more severe cases, they require therapy. You need to make sure that you are really okay with having the abortion and that it agrees with your conscience. Many who have abortions without having their conscience agree are the ones who end up depressed.

Abortion, A Sin

Abortion.  What is it?  Why do people do it?  Is it killing a human life?  What are the benefits for having an abortion?  Should it be made illegal?  These questions I will try and answer on the key issue right now on abortion.  I  will tell you my side and how I fell, and hope that after this you would agree with my opinion.

Abortion is the killing of a child before the birth.  They usually take a needle and put it into the mothers womb, and kill it. Although that is not the only way to do it.  There are other ways also of killing a child. There is a abortion called have abortion.  It comes out of the womb half way, then they kill it.  To me that is just sick.  I think that it is in humane to kill a live child.  Just think,it is alive.  It needs oxygen to breath.  It needs food to live. And if you don’t take care of the baby, it wouldn’t come out. Like if you do drugs or alcohol, it will ruin the child.

There is one exception  that I would have is if the girl got raped.  Even though I still wouldn’t approve of it, I think there should be an exception.  I think that if the woman had any brains, that she would want to have the loving child.  Just think  you come home from work one day, and all of the sudden your kid gives you a great big hug.  That shows love.  And after a long days work, wouldn’t anybody want some love from a child.  Yeah when they are little they scream, and kick, but they also give love, and affection, and can be the cutest thing.  And if you abort, you wont get that will you?

Some people also just want to make amends for what they have done.  Maybe they have screwed up in their life and don’t want there parents to know.  Or maybe they just aren’t ready for a kid.  Well let me tell you, you should have thought  about that before you had sex.  My mom once told me and this has stuck in my mind, that the best kind of safe sex is no sex.  That has stuck in my mind, and because of that, I will not have sex until I am married.  That way I can have the love and affection of kids, and not have to worry about it.  That is my opinion, and I plan on sticking to it.

I think that in no circumstances it should be made legal. Don’t you think that the kid would want to grow up in this world, and enjoy all the ups and downs of this world?  I just think that he doesn’t have a heart.  But I could be wrong.  From what I see, I don’t think there are any benefits to having an abortion.  You don’t get love, or to see what your child could grow up to be, you would have to live with your self forever, wondering whether you made the right choice, and you will miss out on seeing a baby grow up.  To me that would be the most wonderful experience there is.

In conclusion you obviously know by now how I feel about abortion.  I know not everyone thinks the way I do.  If I changed just one persons mind in this article, I feel I would have done my job.  I feel I am in the right about this topic, and will never change my mind about it. As a closing thought just remember this, What happens if your parents aborted you?  What if they didn’t want you?  You wouldn’t be here right now arguing.  Do you like your life that much?  Well give the opportunity for someone else to like life!